Having a right mindset is crucial. You need to be very honest with yourself. You need to face yourself and understand WHAT you are about to do and WHY are you doing it. You have a good reason to have an affair. If you are not honest with yourself you will feel guilty. As soon as you feel guilty, it will transfer into your behavior and you’re done. You will behave like a guilty person and you will get caught.
Therefore, be confident in everything you do and believe in yourself and it will transfer into your behavior. Never think or feel what you are doing is bad. Remember, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON. Drill it into your mind.
To have a successful affair you need to be able to spend some time away from your partner for a required period of time. You need to have a solid alibi and a story and practice it before you start having a real affair. You must have a solid story and know every detail. Expect to be tested by your spouse. Never change your story or you will be busted. If you can’t create a solid alibi yourself, there are companies like Alibi Network who can organize a good alibi for you. But at the end of the day it is up to you to have your story straight. So, create yourself an alibi and start practicing it now.
When you have your story and alibi you should expect to be asked all sorts of questions about it. Your job is to have an answer for everything. Make sure your answers are reasonable. Have some answers that are off the wall and cause a jerk in thought. Be ready for anything.
To sum it up:
- Get your WHY straight
- Remember, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON
- Practice, practice, practice your alibi
- Always have an answer to any questions
Practice it even before you go for any affair related activities. Practice it just for the sake of having a practice. It should become your second nature before you go to the next part.